The new family in my class would
be from Chad, which is a landlocked country in central Africa. In Chad the two
most common languages are French and Arabic, although there are over 100 other
languages or dialects spoken. In preparation for my new student, it would be
good to know how to greet him/her in French and Arabic, and then ask the
parents to teach me a few key words in their spoken language. Those would
include words like: toilet, water, hungry, thirsty, mom is coming, I am hurt, and
so on.
The most prevalent religion is
Islam, then Christianity and then animism and other religions. So in
preparation for meeting the family, I need to be aware of some of the religious
beliefs accordingly. If they are Muslim: do they eat pork, does the father
shake hands with a female, etc.
I found out that girls are still
married at a very young age and so the average age for mothers is 18 years old.
Literacy rates are quite low, particularly for females and usually the man
marries more than one wife and lives with the extended family. This is quite
important because I need to anticipate a young mother, who could be illiterate
and possibly living with extended family. Communication with the family will be
very different from the typical America family, and we cannot rely on written
communication alone or that the information reaches the mother each time.
On child raising practices, I
found very little but this gives me some idea of what to expect: "The
rearing of young children is done by the mother and by relatives; at a later
stage there is more involvement by the father. Of greatest importance for all
Chadians is the socializing role of the family and the ethnocultural group
later in life through, for example, initiation, the taking on of religious and
ritual duties, mutual help, and social support. Children necessarily remain
dependent on their families until their early twenties.
About 60 percent of Chadian
children attend primary school, but the literacy rate in Chad is estimated at
only 20 percent, a comparatively low rate within Africa. Further formal
education is pursued by a minority, and most children are educated by their
families, taking on domestic and economic tasks in their early teens…"
(everyculture, 2015)
I also found out that there is a
huge variety in their food and clothing, so it would be difficult to anticipate
the child's needs in that regards.
In preparation for my student, I
would have the flag of Chad up on our international wall of facts. I would
learn a few words in French and Arabic, and anticipate some of the religious
practices. The basics have to be established when the family arrives, such as
the child's name and how to pronounce it correctly. As well as how the parents
like to be addressed.
In addition, I would prepare an
interview list of questions like whom to contact for concerns, preferred means
of communication, eating habits, sleeping habits, family members in the household
in USA, family members in their household in Chad. To go further in helping the
family in their new community, I would ask them if they knew any other Chadians
or if they needed to make contacts. I would ask them if they have established a
pediatrician and guide them accordingly.
After the interview, I would take the
family for a tour of our facility and explain how we run our program, and what our
policies are. During such a tour, many questions arise such as previous child
care, eating habits (floor, table, fed, independent) and much more.
By observing the family and prompting
them, we can find out if their culture praises or encourages children through
hugs, high fives, kind words or any other gestures that can be used in our
setting.
A family that feels that the school
recognizes their differences and prepares and embraces them, are going to feel
more welcomed and less intimidated. A teacher who is prepared for a family's
differences, will also feel less intimidated when approaching them, and better equipped
to care for their child.
Opening up communication through an introductory
interview and tour of the setting, will prepare for the differences to be discussed
and addressed.